The road not traveled

The tl;dr -I often ponder the road not taken.

I grew up as a #MissouriSynod #Lutheran. This is the most conservative branch of #Lutheranism. Women aren't allowed to touch money and #EarthDay is evil because the earth is here to serve us. To celebrate Earth Day is tantamount to creating a false idol. In 8th grade Pastor Mueller took me aside and asked if I would consider becoming a Lutheran Minister. My answer was a definitive NO. 

My earliest childhood besties were all #Catholic. I won't tag them but if they read this, they know who they are... I admired the Catholic Church's commitment to the poor and downtrodden. Specifically, I admired the #Jesuits. They are dedicated to making the world a better place.

In Lutheranism you are confirmed in the faith at 14 and you're given a #Biblical quote the Pastor has chosen specifically for you. Mine? Matthew 19:30 "But many who are first (on earth), shall be last (in heaven). Many who are last will be first." I am not sure what message Pastor Mueller meant for me but it's a quote I remember. 

#PopeFrancis, the most famous Jesuit, was asked by a shy boy if his non-believing father was in heaven. Despite his lack of faith the father had all four children baptized. The Pope asked the crowd assembled if God would abandon a man who cared so much for his children. "NO!" the crowd yelled back. 

I considered becoming a Jesuit Priest for my final professional act on this planet.

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Journalist John Dickersen, formerly anchor of the CBS Evening News now at the Atlantic, recently interviewed Father James Martin. Father Martin wrote, "Work in Progress: Confessions of a Busboy, Dishwasher, Caddy, Usher, Factory Worker, Bank Teller, Corporate Tool, and Priest". He undersells himself as a corporate tool; as a graduate of Wharton School of Business at U Penn? He had to have been pretty amazing to have simply gained admission.

As a Jesuit Priest Father Martin is a man of the cloth who understands the real world better than anyone. He is not a raging Commie like the Missouri Synod views Catholics. He is decidedly pro-capitalism.  President George W. Bush liked to extol the virtues of "Compassionate conservatism." I doubt Father Martin considers himself a conservative, but I digress. 

Father Martin had a #CrucibleMoment while working at #GeneralElectric, specifically #GECapital. For more on Crucible Moments I refer you to a book written by Professor James Kelley. Father Martin, "When we are more vulnerable, God is able to break in."

"I'm a Jesuit who happens to be a writer. So I'll write maybe an hour or two in the morning... I find it a pleasure. Why is that? Well, first of all, I don't have to make a living off of it. So if the book does well, great, if it doesn't do well I am still going to eat. Second, I don't consider myself a writer. I'm a Jesuit who happens to write. And, third I have another job... I am not an academic writer so I don't have to worry about it being well reviewed or peer reviewed... Finally, I can write about what I want to write about. So I'm really lucky. I mean, since the money goes to the Jesuits... I never have writer's block... it was a total joy." 

Father Martin Founded Outreach Ministries. You can find him on X as @JamesMartinSJ. John Dickersen can be found on #Threads as @JDickersen. 

You can find me considering becoming a Jesuit.

Mentors and grief

We all process grief in different ways. That's to be expected when talking about a loved one. It's definitely more complicated when it's the mentor who you would have given your life for without hesitation.

February 19 was Dr. William Spellman's birthday. When he died I was honored his wife Donna allowed me to give the eulogy. I later had to explain to my Dad why connection to Bill was beyond friendship, beyond family... but that's a story for a different podcast. 

Linkedin is platform dedicated to nonstop performative congratulations.

Fortunately, the algorithm has learned that what I want to see is my fellow professionals sharing insightful information or helping others advance their careers. That's why I am on this platform.

My message here? I am lucky; my mentor knew how much I loved him before he died. 

My request to anyone reading this? Reach out to your mentor and make sure they know how much they meant to you. Having me around him was meaningful for him but trust me on this, he needed to hear from others who loved him half as much as I did. A few messages from previous mentees would have made Bill's last few months 1000x better.

Boycott

 The best FB feature was the addition of the “It’s complicated” when it comes to relationships. 

ProfG, the NYU Stern School of Business, is an amazing man and he’s also a self-absorbed prick. Just ask him.

Fall 2020 the podcast he hosts with Kara Swisher began blowing up. He said in an episode, “Kara, do you realize we are #6 in the UAE?” 

I sent him a message, “Hey ProfG, ProfS here. The reason you’re #6 is that this country is not into podcasts and I am making hundreds of my students listen to Pivot.”

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Like me, Scott was triggered by the events in Minneapolis. Seeing Alex Pretti assasinated made me lose my shit. If you’ve seen Requiem for a Dream, when the addict can’t get enough dope they start tweaking and the screen fritzes. I went almost 60 hours without sleep so I was seeing the fritzing. BTW, my brother died from heroin. So yeah, it’s a drug I will never do, but I digress.

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Scott has created a website: https://www.resistandunsubscribe.com/

Scott believes the only way to get the Tech Oligarchy to pay attention is to do a temporary boycott - the month of February. Find ways to reduce your addiction to them and they will wake up. See Jimmy Kimmel for proof.

How do I know this can work? I’ve been trolling Apple CEO Tim Cook on X on this topic and he blocked me. A man I deeply admire for rewriting the rules for Supply Chain took the time to see what I wrote and blocked me. Fascinating.

Again, my relationship with Scott is complicated. For the purpose of this mission? He and I are on the same page. Find a way to be part of the #resistance. If it scares you to think you may be losing some of your favorite shows? Send me a DM. I can hook you up. - Steve